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March 11 wisdom"I've learned that no matter what happens, or how bad it seems today, life does go on, and it will be better tomorrow." "I've learned that you can tell a lot about a person by the way he/she handles these three things: a rainy day, lost luggage, and tangled Christmas tree lights." "I've learned that regardless of your relationship with your parents, you'll miss them when they're gone from your life." "I've learned that making a "living" is not the same thing as "making a life." "I've learned that life sometimes gives you a second chance." "I've learned that you shouldn't go through life with a catcher's mitt on both hands; you need to be able to throw some things back." "I've learned that whenever I decide something with an open heart, I usually make the right decision." "I've learned that even when I have pains, I don't have to be one." "I've learned that every day you should reach out and touch someone. People love a warm hug, or just a friendly pat on the back." "I've learned that I still have a lot to learn." "I've learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel." January 25 test your tongue
TEST YOUR TONGUE!
how fast can u say it and how many times can u say it?
Tragedy strategy.
Six sick slick slim sycamore saplings.
Unique New York
Six thick thistle sticks. Six thick thistles stick.
I slit the sheet, the sheet I slit, and on the slitted sheet I sit.
Three free throws.
Knapsack straps.
Lesser leather never weathered wetter weather better
Friendly Frank flips fine flapjacks.
We surely shall see the sun shine soon.
Twelve twins twirled twelve twigs.
Flash message!
Give papa a cup of proper coffee in a copper coffee cup.
Six sharp smart sharks.
Of all the felt I ever felt,
I thought a thought.
Truly rural.
Good blood, bad blood
Quick kiss. Quicker kiss.
Amidst the mists and coldest frosts,
On mules we find two legs behind
One-One was a racehorse.
Will you, William?
Mix, Miss Mix!
Who washed Washington's white woolen underwear
I am not the pheasant plucker,
how talented is YOUR tongue? January 21 changing within
we all believe that the previous year was the hardest we've ever faced.
for me, last year was the collection of years before, diggin up things from the past that i thought were over. things that i thought i had buried and could no longer hurt me.
depression finds a way to so quietly slither in and take up residence. before we know it, we're back in the same state that we thought we had already overcome.
this year i've done away with tangible resolutions. it makes no sense to pay so much attention to the outside when the inside is screaming for just a little bit of love.
visiting other spaces and talkin to other people, especially young women, i have found that so many are hurting not because of outside forces, but from the ugly skeletons that no longer stay inside the closets but walk around with and haunt them every day.
listen closely
let it go this year.
stop ruining your future by living in the past, making ur present miserable.
along with your other resolutions, fall in love with yourself again, be sure that what u see in the mirror is what u really want and not a monster u created that u feel everyone loves. no one can love u if they don't know who u truly are.
this year be fair to the ones u love and let them fall in love with the real u.
cry if it hurts
laugh if u think it's funny
dance if u like the song
get excited if u feel a spark
forget what others may think. if they were meant to be in you r life, they'll love you.
if they decide to walk away, let them walk. you have no need to beg for love.
this year make the change within, and you'll be amazed at how everything around u will fall into place.
December 10 full circle
I'm a married woman now!
please pardon me for taking too long to update
i'm still honeymooning....
i was so afraid but now i know.
this step has taken me beyond boarders i never thought i'd pass.
total happiness, total peace
i've come full circle
and it's only the beginning
October 28 live...... LOVE
have u ever noticed the way the word just slides off your tongue? the way it makes u feel like the whole world is on your side?
like everything is right, like everything is good, like everything is perfect. perfect......
like the sweet, smooth honey drippin g thick and rich from the pollen of a nectar flower....
like the cascade of a cool and vibrant waterfall washing away all your fears, insecurities and doubts......
like the carefree eagle soaring high through the big, beautiful, blue sky leaving behind all restraints, responsibilities and obligations........
like the raging flames of a pure passion ready to ignite your deepest, wildest, most sensual desires..........
like the blooming of a brand new rose after being gently kissed by the rays of the sun, awakening it from a long night's slumber...........
like the sweetest, wet dew fallin g on the soft, delicate petals of the most beautiful flower in the early light of day......
but love isn't perfect. in fact it's far from. along with it come pain, tears and unbelievable agony......
however, a life without love is more unbearable than loving and losing a thousand times.....
so allow your heart to love and even if it's only for a second............live.
by Ms. Princess A.D. Bethel
October 22 it's time to move
we sit alone in a room filled with people. but somehow it's only us. i can only think of the hurt that has been trapped somewhere deep inside because of recent conversations. the accusations, the harsh words....when will this phase be over?
sometimes i wonder....maybe it's me. maybe i'm doing something wrong. maybe i haven't done enough. but how can i fix it if i don't know what's broken.
i don't want to start this way. it's a shame that love chooses this time to give another pop quiz. i'm tired of tryin to prove the same point over and over again. i'm tired of being unsure of myself, wondering if being a wife is something i should reconsider.
i love him beyond a shadow of a doubt. and i know he loves me. so what is this then? why can't we just get over this hump. feels like we're stuck going in circes, and my head is spinning to the point of no control.
maybe we're too pre-occupied. maybe the more we argue the more we wish we were elsewhere....doing something else. i don't want to drive him away into the arms of some other delight. i want to be the one he turns to, the one he runs to, the one he leans on, the one he needs. i want to be his everything, but we all know how impossible that is. i can never be everything he needs. sometimes it hurts but it's something i have to accept.
this is not a blog of despair. i know that we will be fine. i just wish that this frustration and fighting can end.
if ur reading this, it's for a reason. please send up a prayer for my future husband and i, and leave me a comment, let me know u passed by and cared enough.
October 08 men are like 1. Men are like Laxatives . They irritate the crap out of you.
2. Men are like . Bananas . The older they get, the less firm they are. 3. Men are like . Weather . Nothing can be done to change them.. 4. Men are like . Blenders . You need One, but you're not quite sure why. 5. Men are like . Chocolate Bars . Sweet, smooth, & they usually head right for your hips. 6. Men are like ..... Commercials . You can't believe a word they say. 7. Men are like . Department Stores . Their clothes are always 1/2 off. 8. Men are like . Government Bonds . They take soooooooo long to mature. 9. Men are like . Mascara . They usually run at the first sign of emotion. 10. Men are like . Popcorn . They satisfy you, but only for a little while. 11. Men are like . Snowstorms . You never know when they're coming, how many inches you'll get or how long it will last. 12. Men are like . Lava Lamps . Fun to look at, but not very bright. 13. Men are like . Parking Spots . All the good ones are taken, the rest are handicapped.
September 22 a woman's work A little boy asked his mother, "Why are you crying?"
"Because I'm a woman," she told him. "I don't understand," he said. His Mom just hugged him and said, "And you never will."  Later the little boy asked his father, "Why does mother seem to cry for no reason?" "All women cry for no reason," was all his dad could say. The little boy grew up and became a man, still wondering why women cry. Finally he put in a call to God.  When God answered, he asked, "God, why do women cry so easily?" God said: "When I made the woman she had to be special. I made her shoulders strong enough  to carry the weight of the world, yet gentle enough to give comfort. I gave her an inner strength to endure childbirth and the rejection that many times comes from her children. I gave her a hardness that allows her to keep going  when everyone else gives up, and take care of her family through sickness and fatigue without complaining. I gave her the sensitivity to love her children  under any and all circumstances, even when her child has hurt her very badly. I gave her strength to carry her husband through his faults and fashioned her from his rib to protect his heart.  I gave her wisdom to know that a good husband never hurts his wife, but sometimes tests her strengths and her resolve to stand beside him unfalteringly. And finally, I gave her a tear to shed.  This is hers exclusively to use whenever it is needed." "You see my son," said God, "the beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair. The beauty of a woman must be seen in her eyes,  because that is the doorway to her heart - the place where love resides."  ">September 09 my candle is lit
for those whose lives have been touched by Katrina....
nothing is placed on you that is more than u can bare....
just keep hangin in there........ >September 08 dreamin daze
it's hard for a dream involving two people to live when only one person is dreaming.....
so let's dream together...u and me....
dreams keep us alive despite the curve balls that life hurls our way
so whenever u feel depressed, lonely, stressed, pull out your favourite fantacy. it could be about the sexy guy at work u can't keep your eyes off
or about winning the lottery
or maybe it's about running wild and free
whatever it may be, it belongs to u no one can make fun of it, criticiize it, or take it from u
ur dreams and fantacies will never let u down, simply because they're yours
so never stop dreamin..it keeps u alive...
  September 07 in love
and kisses we share come together like a symphony, a neverending song our hearts sing to the beat of the same, ushering us in to each other in ways even shakespeare could not fathom.....
how is it that the heart can contain such emotion, such fire? when i think of you, my heart beats faster, slower, somehow simultaneously, u make me nervous yet u set my mind at ease, u make me want to be more, yet happy as i am....
i love u....in ways i could never explain....in ways that i sometimes am unabe to show....so much that it hurts sometimes.......so much that in the midst of my fears, my apprehensions, i find peace in knowing that the truth will always deliver me to freedom......
take my hand and i will lead u to the stars.....to a place where only those with love in their eyes can go......come fly with me......
*****************************to the king of my jungle******************* ********
August 31 smile
happiness makes up in height for what it lacks in length....
so remember to laugh. who knows? someone may need to hear it.....
August 20 a farmer's work
An elderly man in Florida had owned a large farm for several years. He had a large pond in the back, fixed up nice; picnic tables, horseshoe courts, and some apple and peach trees. The pond was properly shaped and fixed up for swimming when it was built.
One evening, the old farmer decided to go down to the pond, as he hadn't been there for a while, and look it over. He grabbed a five gallon bucket to bring back some fruit.
As he neared the pond, he heard voices shouting and laughing with glee. He came closer and saw it was a bunch of young women skinny-dipping in his pond. He made the women aware of his presence and they all swam out to the deep end. One of the women shouted to him, "We're not coming out of the water until you leave!"
The old man frowned, "I didn't come down here to watch you ladies swim around naked or make you get out of the pond bare-naked." Holding the bucket up he said, "I'm here to feed the alligator."
Moral: Old men can still think fast.
August 14 have u ever?
has ur mind ever been so far away that even when the rain began to fall....u didn't notice?
have u ever been so in love that it hurt?
have u ever worked so hard that u just had to go overboard?
have u ever given in to temptation that was so sweet u had to do it again?
have u ever found the most beautiful of things in the most unexpected place?
have u ever laughed so hard that you cried?
have u ever been so embarrassed that u just wanted to crawl under a rock and die?
have u ever been kissed so perfectly that your knees became weak?
if not...u should try it sometime...you'd be amazed at how interesting your life will become....
August 09 no apologies
NO APOLIGIES
Never apologize for pursuing what makes you happy. Even if you need to quit your job, transfer schools, or move across country, always do what you really want.
Never apologize for using proper English. Keeping it real doesn't mean speaking Ebonics.
Never apologize for giving your best in a relationship that just didn't work out.
Never apologize for being successful. Only haters want to keep you at their level.
Never apologize for crying. Wear waterproof mascara and express yourself
Never apologize for ten pounds you need to lose. People who truly care about you will accept you as you are.
Never apologize for being frugal. Just because you save your money instead of blowing it on the latest fashion emergency doesn't mean you're cheap. blue
Don't apologize for being a single Mom. Babies are a blessing.
Never apologize for treating yourself to something special. Sometimes you have to show yourself some appreciation.
Never apologize for leaving an abusive relationship. Your safety should always be a priority.
Never apologize for keeping the ring even if you did not get married.
Never apologize for setting high standards in a relationship. You know what you can tolerate and what simply gets on your nerves.
Never apologize for saying NO
Never apologize for asking for what you want in bed. If you don't, then who will?
Never apologize for wearing a weave or braids. You bought it so it's yours. Never apologize to your new friends about old friends. There's a reason she's been your girl from day one.
Never apologize for ordering dessert. Or more than one dessert.
Never apologize for dating outside your race. Just because you found Mr. Right across the color line doesn't mean you don't love your brothers. Never apologize for asking him to wear a condom. If he likes you he'll wrap it up without making you feel guilty. Never apologize for not knowing how to cook. Even if you can't burn like Grandma you know how to order good take out.
Never apologize for your taste in clothes. It's your style.
Never apologize for changing your mind, it is your prerogative.
Never apologize for making more money than your man, you work hard and you deserve to get paid.
Never apologize for being you!
"KEEP YOUR HEAD UP AND KEEP MOVING FORWARD" ALWAYS REMEMBER THAT GOD LOVES YOU AND HE ALWAYS GOT YOUR BACK
 August 07 his arms she lies in his arms, crying her pain away knowing nothing but the despair that lies within her heart and the forbidden rest she finds in his arms, realizing that it could never last as long as she wants it to…………… she cries in his arms, thinking of the life she has to face alone when all is said and done here in this darkened delight the skeletons that await her at her doorstep the ones that she longs to forget about yet endlessly pushes to the back of her closet……………. she smiles in his arms when he whispers in her ear, lies that he would always be around and though she knew the words would never be tru she clings to them as a drowning man would a straw knowing that it’s all of him that she couild ever truly hold on to………………… she moans in his arms as he demands the monster that she had created for him the one who, at first, only wanted a little attention a simple kiss, a hand to hold, someone to share with the one who is now indispensable because of her appetite for his presence…………………. she sighs all alone as she thinks about those arms knowing that after dreaming for so long her dreams will never come tru for she will never be the rightful owner simply because those arms belonged to another……….  August 01 no promises
if you really dont care never talk about feelings if they aren't really there never hold my hand if you're gonna break my heart never say you are going to if you don't plan to start never look into my eyes if all you do is lie never say hello if you really mean goodbye if you really mean forever then say you will try never say forever cause forever makes me cry
anonymous July 26 angels
this world is filled with so many trials and perils, one may wonder how we make it from day to day. how do we step outside our door each morning knowing that there are rapists and murderers lurking around every corner? how do we lay our heads down every night for lengthy slumber, knowing that there are robbers creaping in the dark, waiting for the lights to go out?
how do we jump on airplanes and public transportation knowing that there are terrorists who join us with their own agendas?
how do our minds stay in tact in a world that has supposedly gone mad?
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in this little space, i remember that there is one who is always watching over me, one who dries my tears and catches me when i fall, one who loved me so much that He gave the life of His only Son so that i could be free...
 My Heavenly Father
And He allows me tha privellage of having my very own....
 July 23 healthy insanitySeventeen Ways To Maintain A Healthy Level of Insanity
1. At Lunch Time, Sit In Your Parked Car With Sunglasses on and point A Hair Dryer At Passing Cars. See If They Slow Down. 2. Page Yourself Over The Intercom. Don't Disguise Your Voice. 3. Every Time Someone Asks You To Do Something, Ask If They Want Fries with That. 5. Put Decaf In The Coffee Maker For 3 Weeks. Once Everyone Has Gotten Over Their Caffeine Addictions, Switch To Espresso. 6. In The Memo Field Of All Your Checks, Write "For Sexual Favors" 7. Finish all Your Sentences With "In Accordance With The Prophecy." 8 dont use any punctuation 9. As Often As Possible, Skip Rather Than Walk. 10. Specify That Your Drive-through Order Is "To Go." 11. Sing Along At The Opera. 12. Go To A Poetry Recital And Ask Why The Poems Don't Rhyme 13. Put Mosquito Netting Around Your Work Area And Play Tropical Sounds All Day. 14. When The Money Comes Out The ATM, Scream "I Won!, I Won!" 15. When Leaving The Zoo, Start Running Towards The Parking Lot, Yelling "Run For Your Lives, They're Loose!!" To Have To Let One Of You Go." 17. Repost This and Make Someone Smile. It's called Therapy.....  |
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